When we think about homemaking, itâs easy to picture cozy meals, meaningful family moments, and creative projects that bring beauty and joy into our lives. We all want to thrive at home. But for many of us, thereâs something standing in the way of that vision: our messy homes.
The piles of laundry, the cluttered counters, and the endless to-do list donât just take up physical spaceâthey take up mental and emotional space too. And until we create margin in our homes, itâs hard to experience the peace, creativity, and connection weâre longing for.
In this post, I want to talk about the importance of making space in homemaking, why our messy homes hold us back from our full potential, and how creating breathing room in our daily lives benefits not only us, but also our families. It was inspired by my latest YouTube video, and I thought I could go into more depth here. So, here we go.
Messy Homes Hold Us Back
Itâs not just about appearances. A cluttered, chaotic home impacts how we feel and how we function. When every surface is covered and every corner is crammed, it can:
- Drain our energy before weâve even started the day.
- Keep us from feeling inspired and creative. (Harvard Business Review on creativity and environment)
- Steal precious time we could spend on what really matters.
- Create stress and tension for the entire family. (Mayo Clinic on clutter and stress)
Instead of being a refuge, our homes can begin to feel like a burden. And when our homes weigh us down, we often find ourselves stuck and unable to fully step into our gifts, our passions, or even our relationships. Itâs hard to thrive at home when you canât fully relax and enjoy your space.
How to Thrive at Home: Making Space Creates Margin
The goal of homemaking isnât a spotless show home. Iâm not shooting for a picture perfect minimalist ideal. After all, none of us are called to live in a museum. Instead, itâs about creating a home that supports life, growth, and connection.
When we clear away the excess and create space, something beautiful happens:
- We breathe easier, both physically and emotionally (National Sleep Foundation on environment and rest).
- Our homes become a place of restoration instead of stress.
- We free up time and energy for what matters mostâour faith, our families, our creativity, and our health.
- We teach our children by example that itâs possible to thrive at home, not just survive.
For some inspiration, I love the reminder from The Nester: âIt doesnât have to be perfect to be beautiful.â
Margin matters. Itâs the breathing room that allows us to enjoy homemaking instead of resenting it.
It Wonât Happen Overnight
Hereâs the long and short of it: it took more than a day to make the mess, and it will take more than a day to undo it. Homemaking is a journey, not a sprint.
If you need a gentle place to begin, I recommend FlyLadyâs Baby Stepsâsmall, simple habits that help you move forward little by little.
Start small. One drawer. One counter. One corner of a room. Celebrate the progress, and remember that every little bit of space you create is a victory. Over time, these small efforts add up to real transformation.
Give yourself and your family grace along the way. The goal isnât perfectionâitâs progress. I recently wrote a blog post about this very topic of slow progress if youâre interested!
Homemaking That Helps You Thrive at Home
Making space in homemaking isnât about creating a picture-perfect house. Itâs about building a home where you and your family can live, love, and thrive. A home that gives you energy instead of draining it. A home that makes room for creativity, laughter, and peace.
If youâd like more encouragement on intentional living, I recommend Becoming Minimalist for inspiration on how less really can be more.
When you intentionally create margin, youâre not just clearing clutterâyouâre making space for a better life.
⨠If this resonates with you, I invite you to watch my YouTube video on this very topic: Making Space in Homemaking. Together, we can embrace homemaking not as a burden, but as a beautiful gift, and learn to thrive at home.
if youâd like to explore more conversations on the blog about homemaking, I invite you to check out these other posts, too!
What are you doing this week to create margin in your home? Iâd love to read all about it!
